Thursday afternoon came and went without nary a word from C, nor phone call. Phew. After Sunday tradeoff of M with C, to M with me ("like a toy" per M argh I hate she feels that way), I started wondering if C had not gotten back to me re: mediation he'd been threatening and insisting on (ok, fine), and that she's with HIM this weekend (um, no, not per court order unless we switched), was b/c he'd just show up and demand she go with him. He's not one to ever get back to me and say, "Oh, never mind," so I was left wondering what he was planning on.
I'd gotten info from M about an upcoming event (feis) that led me to think that C/Sh were not going to stay persuing (sp) the switch of weekends/court order bit. Then an e-mail from Sh implying that M was with me for a different upcoming feis / competition (asking if M and Si could do a 2-hand dance competition for it-- if Sh felt M was with them, Sh wouldn't even bother asking me, heck, she won't even respond to me when I ask her what M is signed up to compete in, for a feis M's with them for. Just verifying figures is in, as her Oireachtas figures group is to dance there for practice. Ah, well, someone at the dance school sent out another mass information e-mail that included who was confirmed for that, and M was listed, so good. After asking M, I did write Sh back that M is fine dancing that one with Si, and I'd add that to M's registration. C and I will also switch a set of weekends around later in the fall, as C will be out of town for one and M wants to feis near C's sister for another. SO glad this has been, I think, resolved)